We have never thought that the best female toys would spice up our relationship. Me and my boyfriend agreed to have an open relationship for a few months to spice up our stagnant love, and sex life. An open relationship means you get to still be together but you also agreed to allow each other to see other people. We know it has raised a few eyebrows, and some of our friends became skeptical and awkward about it, but we are confident about the love we have for each other. No matter how many people we see, we are sure to get back together.
So far, it has been a blast. This was the first time my boyfriend and I had explored our sexualities, and we realised that it is ever so fluid! I never thought I would enjoy doing it to other people of my same gender, and he to his. I must admit that we have been with whatever x-somes we can. But no matter what, who, or when, our favourites are when we do it with “it”.
I was referring to the babies we have seen at this store for pleasure toys for women called Smile Makers. While we are at this pharmacy, we have seen the stand of Smile Makers and no matter how much we have done, we have not yet tried to use pleasure toys, so we two of their selections to try them out. Here are their selections:
The Fireman
Interestingly, these pleasure toys are shaped like soft flames as they have a narrowing tip at the end. They say that the hottest part of the flame is the blue one - or the one at its heart. So, it seems that with this pleasure toy for women, the deadliest part would be the slightly mounted part at its heart where the clitoris is supposed to be teased with. Many people fail to bring pleasure to a woman because of them not being that knowledgeable about the power of the clitoris. Many women do not arrive to their climax through penetration alone. This is why clitoral stimulation is important.
The tips of the flames of the fireman provides optimal pleasure as it teases the labia.
The Tennis Coach
This bad boy brings vibrators to another level. It is elongated, but has a slightly curved bulge at the end. This is the vibrator that is supposed to be inserted in your vagina where the bulge would stroke and tease our G-spot. This does not necessarily mean you would directly insert it deep. You can just first tease yourself way in by applying it on the clitoris glans with the initial speeds, then build it up. It is up to you to experiment.
These two are really game changers! Now, I understood the hype behind vibrators. Since it is run by motors, I can go through different rounds as I please. There has been a stigma with women using pleasure toys (and the best one at that), but at this point, when you are not even hurting other people, how can it be bad just because it is not something the society used to preach?
